What Should I Do About My Girlfriend?
Ive been in a serious relationship for almost 3 years with a woman 6 years older than me. Im 22 and at the age of wanting to party and enjoy city nightlife. Problem is, shes been there, done that, so she isn’t dying to be out late night. Last time she partied out late, it was New Years at The Rio hotel in Vegas and I was 20 and still unable to club.
Shes the most amazing person to me and I feel she understands me like no one else, but I have needs to be young and dumb and I think she feels past that point of activity.
We’ve talked about it and came to the conclusion that we are at two different points in life, but Im not sure where that leaves our relationship. Is there a way of moving pass this or a way of communicating these feelings better?
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October 10th, 2009 at 6:45 am
Depends on how strong your relationship is and what is really most important to you. What you don’t want to happen is regret. You don’t want to be 28 years old finally over the late night partying and find yourself without that amazing woman you once had… You also don’t want to pass up being “young and dumb” at a point in your life when it’s acceptable to be young and dumb… Because then at age 28 you may still have the same amazing woman because in exchange you gave up your youth, but I fear then you’d yearn to start acting like a 22 year old and then possibly lose her.
I would advise, if your relationship is strong enough, with enough understanding, respect and love for eachother to part ways for the time being until you’re done doing YOU and want to be with just her and she’s enough for you without regret. I’d talk to her about taking that chance, but if your heart tells you it’s too big of a gamble maybe you need to do some more thinking.
PS… she’s not OLD at 28… maybe you should remind her of that!
October 10th, 2009 at 6:45 am
Maybe you two should spend some time apart where you can both do your own things. If not it isn’t going to work. You two should start finding things that you can enjoy together. Couples have to be best friends.
October 10th, 2009 at 6:45 am
You need to have your own things going on. I wouldn’t advocate breaking up with her, but maybe party with your friends and stay together? Find other things you enjoy doing together.
October 10th, 2009 at 6:45 am
Just be honest. Always be honest.
decide what the relationship with her is worth.
October 10th, 2009 at 6:45 am
take her back and see if she is still covered under the warranty